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COVID-19 - Info, resources & how it's affecting our services

Note - We strongly encourage everyone to not engage in casual sex at this time

Love in the Time of COVID-19

Not leaving the house for casual sex or inviting people into your home doesn't mean you need to go online shopping for a purity ring or a chastity belt.

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Bottoming IBS Douching Ending HIV Article

Douching and Bottoming With IBS

A Guide For Troubled Bottoms by Trutha Minnelli

I-B-S. Three letters that can change a bottom's life.

For me, the Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) diagnosis came as I entered my mid-twenties, a time when I should be in my prime as a hungry bottom...

Douching and Bottoming With IBS

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Can I get HIV from oral sex?

Blowjobs should be a great time for everyone involved, and getting rid of any misconceptions about HIV and STIs means you can enjoy the moment without worry.

Can I get HIV from oral sex?

How to have anal sex (R18)

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Syphilis is back from the Dark Ages

You probably thought it was something only pirates and Henry VIII had to deal with. Which was true, but in the last few years, Aotearoa has seen a dramatic rise in the number of syphilis cases. So, now it’s something you have to deal with too.

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Why Anal Sex Feels Good Ending HIV Sex Article

Why Does Anal Sex Feel Good?

Spit or Swallow?

So sucking dick is pretty awesome, but there comes a point in every blowjob where the decision must be made to spit or swallow, that is if you want to have your partner cum in your mouth.

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7 Lessons from Fisting Club

Over the next few hours I watch a lot of fists going into a lot of different butts, and I’m surprised by how much I learn in such a short time.

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Butt Lube 101: What you need to know about lubes for your ass

Know your Kinks

Whether you're on the end of a fist, peeking through a keyhole or harnessed in all your leather glory, you'll need to negotiate consent, stay safe and look after each other.

Know your Kinks